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        <title>IF I Ever Have Children - Loving, Laughing, and Trying to Leave a Legacy - heatherijames&apos;s Blog - The Bakersfield Voice</title>
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        <description>I was perusing on Youtube and stumbled across a video regarding random acts of kindness.&amp;nbsp; The gentleman, in monologue form,&amp;nbsp;went on for over seven minutes about making the world a better place&amp;nbsp;though one small kind act after another.&amp;nbsp;
In the middle of his lamenting&amp;nbsp;over all the tragedy prevalent in the world today, he said something that struck me to the core like little has recently.&amp;nbsp; He said, and I quote, &amp;quot;What can we do about it?&amp;nbsp; What can we do to make this world a&amp;nbsp; better place? I kind of feel helpless.&amp;nbsp; I kind of feel like I can only do so much.&amp;nbsp; If I ever have children, I can raise them a certain way....&amp;quot;&amp;nbsp;
But, I, I do have children.&amp;nbsp; It took this man on&amp;nbsp;YouTube to remind me the obligation within&amp;nbsp;my hands, within my voice, within my actions.&amp;nbsp; If I&amp;nbsp;ever have children....&amp;nbsp; This man was quite astute&amp;nbsp;in concluding that the power to make the world a better place is truly one child&amp;nbsp;at a time.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
To teach our sons to&amp;nbsp;respect women.&amp;nbsp; From holding the door open for them, to never pressuring them into physical acts.&amp;nbsp; To teach our daughters to respect themselves.&amp;nbsp; From having a mind of their own, to accepting they are beautiful just as God made them.&amp;nbsp; To&amp;nbsp;show our children that lying is lying&amp;nbsp;from saying they&#039;re younger than they are at the&amp;nbsp;buffet, to missing curfew.&amp;nbsp; To instill in our children that everyone is loved and precious because God loves them&amp;nbsp;all&amp;nbsp;and finds each&amp;nbsp;precious.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
What a power, don&#039;t you see?&amp;nbsp; What a tremendous&amp;nbsp;privilege.&amp;nbsp; If one man thinks he can change the world if he ever has&amp;nbsp;children, what are we&amp;nbsp;parents waiting for?</description>
        <itunes:summary>I was perusing on Youtube and stumbled across a video regarding random acts of kindness.&amp;nbsp; The gentleman, in monologue form,&amp;nbsp;went on for over seven minutes about making the world a better place&amp;nbsp;though one small kind act after another.&amp;nbsp;
In the middle of his lamenting&amp;nbsp;over all the tragedy prevalent in the world today, he said something that struck me to the core like little has recently.&amp;nbsp; He said, and I quote, &amp;quot;What can we do about it?&amp;nbsp; What can we do to make this world a&amp;nbsp; better place? I kind of feel helpless.&amp;nbsp; I kind of feel like I can only do so much.&amp;nbsp; If I ever have children, I can raise them a certain way....&amp;quot;&amp;nbsp;
But, I, I do have children.&amp;nbsp; It took this man on&amp;nbsp;YouTube to remind me the obligation within&amp;nbsp;my hands, within my voice, within my actions.&amp;nbsp; If I&amp;nbsp;ever have children....&amp;nbsp; This man was quite astute&amp;nbsp;in concluding that the power to make the world a better place is truly one child&amp;nbsp;at a time.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
To teach our sons to&amp;nbsp;respect women.&amp;nbsp; From holding the door open for them, to never pressuring them into physical acts.&amp;nbsp; To teach our daughters to respect themselves.&amp;nbsp; From having a mind of their own, to accepting they are beautiful just as God made them.&amp;nbsp; To&amp;nbsp;show our children that lying is lying&amp;nbsp;from saying they&#039;re younger than they are at the&amp;nbsp;buffet, to missing curfew.&amp;nbsp; To instill in our children that everyone is loved and precious because God loves them&amp;nbsp;all&amp;nbsp;and finds each&amp;nbsp;precious.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;
What a power, don&#039;t you see?&amp;nbsp; What a tremendous&amp;nbsp;privilege.&amp;nbsp; If one man thinks he can change the world if he ever has&amp;nbsp;children, what are we&amp;nbsp;parents waiting for?</itunes:summary>
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        <pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 21:55:39 PDT</pubDate>
                
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                <title>Jun 10,  2008 at 07:06 AM : Excellent...</title>
                <description>&lt;p&gt;Excellent point.&amp;nbsp; We have such a responsibility as parents.&amp;nbsp; We determine whether we raise flakes or honorable citizens.&amp;nbsp; It&#039;s all in how you raise them during the formidable years, let me tell you -- the little things you do (and they mimic) from the beginning.&amp;nbsp; Then, when they are teeanagers, they mirror your actions and teachings.&amp;nbsp; What a responsibilty!!&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Excellent point.&amp;nbsp; We have such a responsibility as parents.&amp;nbsp; We determine whether we raise flakes or honorable citizens.&amp;nbsp; It&#039;s all in how you raise them during the formidable years, let me tell you -- the little things you do (and they mimic) from the beginning.&amp;nbsp; Then, when they are teeanagers, they mirror your actions and teachings.&amp;nbsp; What a responsibilty!!&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary>     
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                <title>Jun 10,  2008 at 08:06 AM : Speaking of Random...</title>
                <description>&lt;p&gt;Speaking of Random Acts of Kindness (RAoK)... check out this post we received on our sister site, The Southwest Voice -- &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.swvoice.com/home/ViewPost/61136&quot;&gt;Random Acts of Kindness... at gunpoint.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It&#039;s very cool!!&lt;/p&gt;</description>
                <link>http://www.bakersfieldvoice.com/home/Blog/heatherijames/28101/#c_253248</link>
                <guid>http://www.bakersfieldvoice.com/home/Blog/heatherijames/28101/#c_253248</guid>
                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Speaking of Random Acts of Kindness (RAoK)... check out this post we received on our sister site, The Southwest Voice -- &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.swvoice.com/home/ViewPost/61136&quot;&gt;Random Acts of Kindness... at gunpoint.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It&#039;s very cool!!&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary>     
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