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        <title>Memories....were they our own, or did we &quot;borrow&quot; them? - Neighborhood etiquette - tsimpson&apos;s Blog - The Bakersfield Voice</title>
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        <description>I was laying in bed last night trying to get to sleep, when I started thinking about how our youngest daughter seems to remember things from when she was two years old, or has she heard us speak of different&amp;nbsp; circumstances and then thinks that they are her own memories?&amp;nbsp;
I know for a fact that the first memory I have is from 1968, I was 5 years old living on 7th street in Grover City, Ca. (renamed Grover Beach to increase tourism...I guess it worked?)&amp;nbsp; Anyway, our oldest daughter seems to remember when she was four years old going to the thrift shop with my mom.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; She also remembers being in a church play around the same age.&amp;nbsp; Okay, realistic, but having a memory at two?&amp;nbsp; Is this possible?&amp;nbsp;
I don&#039;t know about you, but my childhood was not the most positive, but then again, who had the perfect childhood?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; I know I blocked out alot of yelling but also remember alot of it too, but therapy has helped me to be &amp;quot;okay&amp;quot;.......at least that&#039;s what I tell myself!&amp;nbsp;
So, I would like to ask all of you readers:&amp;nbsp; At what age do you honestly remember something significant?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Be honest now, is it your memory or are you borrowing it?
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        <itunes:summary>I was laying in bed last night trying to get to sleep, when I started thinking about how our youngest daughter seems to remember things from when she was two years old, or has she heard us speak of different&amp;nbsp; circumstances and then thinks that they are her own memories?&amp;nbsp;
I know for a fact that the first memory I have is from 1968, I was 5 years old living on 7th street in Grover City, Ca. (renamed Grover Beach to increase tourism...I guess it worked?)&amp;nbsp; Anyway, our oldest daughter seems to remember when she was four years old going to the thrift shop with my mom.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; She also remembers being in a church play around the same age.&amp;nbsp; Okay, realistic, but having a memory at two?&amp;nbsp; Is this possible?&amp;nbsp;
I don&#039;t know about you, but my childhood was not the most positive, but then again, who had the perfect childhood?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; I know I blocked out alot of yelling but also remember alot of it too, but therapy has helped me to be &amp;quot;okay&amp;quot;.......at least that&#039;s what I tell myself!&amp;nbsp;
So, I would like to ask all of you readers:&amp;nbsp; At what age do you honestly remember something significant?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Be honest now, is it your memory or are you borrowing it?
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        <pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2008 14:06:34 PDT</pubDate>
                
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                <title>Jul 21,  2008 at 10:07 PM : Interesting topic...</title>
                <description>&lt;p&gt;Interesting topic Tracy.  My first &lt;u&gt;&lt;i&gt;honest&lt;/i&gt; &lt;/u&gt;memory was when I was about 3 or 4.  I know this because of the house we lived in at the time.  I know that we only lived in the house for a short time before my parents moved to a new home (in the northwest no less) in time for me start Kindergarten at age 5.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I have a few specific memories of things that happened in that house.  First, I recall sitting in the breakfast nook watching my mom construct the annual Easter bunny cake.  I remember the tin foil covered cookie sheet, long rabbit ears, and the licorice for the whiskers.  Ironically enough, I don&#039;t recall the Easter celebration itself, but I do recall watching her make it.  To this day, I love to bake and decorate cakes which I can only assume is a talent I acquired from my mother.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Another memory, although far less pleasant, was the time I hid behind my bedroom door eating potato chips that I knew I wasn&#039;t supposed to.  My dad worked the night shift and would come home in time for my mom to head off to work.  During their &quot;shift change&quot; I seemingly disappeared.  I recall them both calling my name over and over again and in some what of a panic (as any parent can relate) until suddenly they heard a loud crunch from behind my door.  My dad found me and asked why I didn&#039;t answer and I replied &quot;Because I wasn&#039;t done yet.&quot;  Needless-to-say, the blanket sleepers were unzipped and my little toosh got a swift spanking.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Of course there are memories that I have been told as well, but I do not recall them specifically.  One such memory is the time my brother (he&#039;s 1½ years older--so about 5 or 6 at the time) and I snuck into the kitchen in the middle of the night looking for some snacks.  (My parents did feed us on a regular basis . . . I promise you).  I recall my mom saying that my brother and I had pulled a chair up to the counter and were standing on the counter with the cupboard doors open.  When she came into the kitchen she saw us (still standing on the counter) &quot;hiding&quot; as we had attempted to close the cupboard doors while still in the cupboards.   We thought we were so sly!&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;Interesting topic Tracy.  My first &lt;u&gt;&lt;i&gt;honest&lt;/i&gt; &lt;/u&gt;memory was when I was about 3 or 4.  I know this because of the house we lived in at the time.  I know that we only lived in the house for a short time before my parents moved to a new home (in the northwest no less) in time for me start Kindergarten at age 5.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I have a few specific memories of things that happened in that house.  First, I recall sitting in the breakfast nook watching my mom construct the annual Easter bunny cake.  I remember the tin foil covered cookie sheet, long rabbit ears, and the licorice for the whiskers.  Ironically enough, I don&#039;t recall the Easter celebration itself, but I do recall watching her make it.  To this day, I love to bake and decorate cakes which I can only assume is a talent I acquired from my mother.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Another memory, although far less pleasant, was the time I hid behind my bedroom door eating potato chips that I knew I wasn&#039;t supposed to.  My dad worked the night shift and would come home in time for my mom to head off to work.  During their &quot;shift change&quot; I seemingly disappeared.  I recall them both calling my name over and over again and in some what of a panic (as any parent can relate) until suddenly they heard a loud crunch from behind my door.  My dad found me and asked why I didn&#039;t answer and I replied &quot;Because I wasn&#039;t done yet.&quot;  Needless-to-say, the blanket sleepers were unzipped and my little toosh got a swift spanking.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Of course there are memories that I have been told as well, but I do not recall them specifically.  One such memory is the time my brother (he&#039;s 1½ years older--so about 5 or 6 at the time) and I snuck into the kitchen in the middle of the night looking for some snacks.  (My parents did feed us on a regular basis . . . I promise you).  I recall my mom saying that my brother and I had pulled a chair up to the counter and were standing on the counter with the cupboard doors open.  When she came into the kitchen she saw us (still standing on the counter) &quot;hiding&quot; as we had attempted to close the cupboard doors while still in the cupboards.   We thought we were so sly!&lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary>     
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                <title>Jul 23,  2008 at 08:07 AM : My brother and I were...</title>
                <description>&lt;p&gt;My brother and I were just having this conversation last week.  I have memories as early as 3.  We lived in Fresno for two years.  I wasn&#039;t in school, but I distinctly remember watching from across the street as my brother&#039;s school did May Day activities around a May pole.  I also remember screaming frantically in our pool when I drifted away from the steps (I was wearing a life jacket of all things), and I remember cutting dead flowers off my grandma&#039;s neighbor&#039;s plants (who gives scissors to a 3-year old??).  Other things I remember can be attributed to old photos, but these things I just mentioned have no photos associated to them.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Out of my 3 kids, my youngest daughter, 14, has that same ability to remember things she was way too young to remember.  &lt;/p&gt;</description>
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                <itunes:summary>&lt;p&gt;My brother and I were just having this conversation last week.  I have memories as early as 3.  We lived in Fresno for two years.  I wasn&#039;t in school, but I distinctly remember watching from across the street as my brother&#039;s school did May Day activities around a May pole.  I also remember screaming frantically in our pool when I drifted away from the steps (I was wearing a life jacket of all things), and I remember cutting dead flowers off my grandma&#039;s neighbor&#039;s plants (who gives scissors to a 3-year old??).  Other things I remember can be attributed to old photos, but these things I just mentioned have no photos associated to them.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Out of my 3 kids, my youngest daughter, 14, has that same ability to remember things she was way too young to remember.  &lt;/p&gt;</itunes:summary>     
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